
What is
Feel Sh!tty Look Pretty?
"Feel Sh!tty, Look Pretty" is something I started saying in high school as a response to people telling me "you don't look sick."
Before I was diagnosed with hypermobile Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and comorbitities, I was a confused and neglected mystery patient who didn't have an explanation for why my appearance rarely matched how I felt. I lived a "fake it 'til you make it" lifestyle and strived to mask my symptoms with pretty makeup and great outfits. This helped me feel like a person instead of a patient, but it made it difficult for doctors to take my invisible symptoms seriously.
I was fighting against the disparity between how I felt and how the world saw me.
I needed to be taken seriously to get medical answers, but some days, as silly as it may seem, the makeup I had on or the accessories I was wearing were the only things making me feel human.
So I started saying "feel sh!tty, look pretty" as a flippant explanation and reminder not to make assumptions based on appearance. I wasn't going to change myself to fit into the mold of what a patient is "supposed" to look like, and I wanted to be able to wear my cute stuff with pride, instead of feeling bad that I didn't look "sick enough".
So I turned my catchphrase into a brand that sells pretty jewelry and accessories to dress up any sh!tty day.
We celebrate individualism and self expression, we value unprejudiced acceptance, and we advocate for those living through invisible battles.

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